Jonathan writes:
No matter who you were - or when you were born, I'd give you the same advice. Unless you get some kind of kinky thrill out of this, stop doing it, now . It is not the way to get him back, it is just the way to destroy your self esteem. April 27th 2001

Astrolivelink's Patty Greenall writes:
Transformative Pluto has been turning your feelings inside out so you can take a good look. It's uncomfortable now, but beneficial in the long run. From the horary chart, there are indications that you need to ask yourself a few questions. If he dropped this other woman tomorrow, do you believe that everything would be hunky-dory from now on? I think not. Your mutual feelings are very strong. His passionate Mars contacts your amorous Venus. But because his Saturn, planet of barriers, adversely contacts your Mercury, communications are difficult. Hazy Neptune in his chart shows he lacks clarity. You could wait for ever for him to decide. Talk to him, probe deeply and make the choice for both of you. April 27th 2001

Guest astrologer Bethea Jenner writes:
The mutual attraction is crystal clear with stimulating links between loving Venus, communicative Mercury and sexy Mars. Your Virgo Sun and idealistic Pisces Moon emphasise stability but his Venus-Uranus connection and Leo Sun in aspect to Neptune display a need for variety and an aversion to responsibility. Dutiful Saturn plays an important role in both charts (you married during your Saturn returns). Saturn binds you together, probably for the long term, but you must not deny your own need for space within relationship, shown by the close connection between her Venus and independent Uranus. Volatile transits of Uranus and Neptune to both charts indicate more upheaval before this drama is over. April 27th 2001

Jonathan writes:
This looks like a classic case of someone who is extra sensitive to Saturn's cycle. I'll let my fellow astrologers explain, but you may just have been born to lead a life full of change. Your best bet is to get used to it and start enjoying it. April 27th 2001

Astrolivelink's Patty Greenall writes:
You were born when Saturn, planet of limitations, duties and responsibilities, was in Cancer with your Sun. The Sun represents your aims, your identity, vitality and can also say something about your father. It suggests that emotional burdens stem from strict early family experience. Saturn's 28-29 year cycle means that every seven to eight years an aspect to this awkward planetary position at birth takes place. The difficulties may not directly relate to the conditions when you were young, but it is likely that they stem from the same configuration, which limits your ability to express yourself. Delve into this to be free of your shackles. April 27th 2001

Guest astrologer Bethea Jenner writes:
Mighty Saturn forms critical aspects every seven years or so which encourage us to take stock and face up to things which no longer serve our purpose. This can involve difficult or painful decisions. In 1946 Saturn resided in Cancer and may account for Jennie's sensitivity. April 27th 2001