Jonathan writes:
I can tell, just from the way that you have written your letter, that you want us to steer you towards the new guy. This neatly illustrates a common "astrologer's dilemma." Do we tell people what they want to hear - or do we tell them what we really think? I think (though my colleagues may disagree) that it's just the "thrill of the new" you are excited by now. August 31st 2001

Astrolivelink's Patty Greenall writes:
From the horary chart, I can see that there is a cloud of uncertainty over your love life. Although this "friend" can offer some eye-opening thrills, this may not last. It's generally not a great idea to leave one relationship for another or to spoil the present one by breaking the loyalty pact - for both his sake and yours. Venus, planet of love, is squaring your Saturn, planet of restrictions. This highlights the limitations imposed on your life by your relationship. This is the perfect time to review your personal needs including what others may or may not be providing for you. Spend some time on your own to look deeply within. August 31st 2001

This week's guest is Joyce Hopewell of the UK Astrological Psychology Institute. Joyce, an astrologer since 1983, is also a psychologist and counsellor. She lives in Cheshire.
Guest astrologer Joyce Hopewell writes:
Your chart suggests you need stability and security. Something new could be a challenge and a drain on your energy. As a Gemini you will enjoy the excitement, but your Leo friend may demand to be the centre of your universe once things get underway. You are moving though a period of consolidation in your life. Working at your current relationship could be your best bet. August 31st 2001

Jonathan writes:
Of course you feel it's easy to move. You're a breezy Sagittarian who thrives on challenge. But he's a home-loving Cancerian. And what's more, he's right by the sea - which is where all Cancerians yearn to be. My advice? Stay put and stay in debt. It will be easier on the marriage. August 31st 2001

Astrolivelink's Patty Greenall writes:
The horary chart has 'fixed angles' suggesting that for the immediate future, it may be better to stay put, although I can see that you are anxious to make a change. Pluto, planet of endings and beginnings, is with your Mercury, which is connected to your need to learn, explore and reach further and you will naturally pursue these things. Your husband will have a Jupiter return in June 2002, a propitious time to expand horizons. By then you'll also be absolutely ripe and ready to move. Meanwhile, work on internal changes. This may be within you or within your home. It will be worth the wait. August 31st 2001

Guest astrologer Joyce Hopewell writes:
You are the active, restless and business-like half. Your husband is the "ideas man". You complement each other well, so wherever you live and work you will make a successful team. His Cancerian reluctance to move is understandable, but for both of you, home will be where the heart is. Your chart shows you have the energy and capacity to create a stable base for you both to live and work from, wherever you are. August 31st 2001